Being single for over a year now and having no interest in finding the right guy, until now causes some major problems. Becoming nervous around males is so shocking it’s sickening. When you used to be able to talk to anyone about anything and now suddenly certain men make you freeze and utterly tongue tied. You don’t know what to say and you don’t want to make yourself look and sound like a complete fool. But in the end you always say something that just may make you or break you. And knowing what you want will help in the end, but not knowing how to react to men just makes finding the right guy so much harder.